So in a month and a half (Jul 17) M.s Sniper celebrates a milestone birthday, and has subtly been hinting that she would like something special. I shortlisted a group of her(our) friends/family, and I'm looking at a get together of about 50 people!

Here...
At our home...

I want to make it special for her, but I (my family)has never done anything special for a birthday, or anything, really...

thoughts, suggestions?