The OOP can only justify removal of his weapons if they can prove he intends them bodily harm and they do not reside with him. They must make the effort to remove themselves from the situation prior to the police taking that step.

On the other hand, I would agree that having the opinion of the best divorce lawyer in town would be a benefit if only because then she couldn't be taken as their client once you consult them so you save the best for yourself. I'm on wife number 2 already so I've been there and feel for you boss. If you need anything I'm always here.